Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. Proverbs 31: 10& 11
While cement walls, bob wire and distance are our obstacles, it is difficult to keep the connection in the relationship. We live in two different worlds where time is short at the same time it is at a standstill. Communication barriers are constant yet the situation of a loved behind bars is always changing. So how do we find a place of our own, how do we find the place to grow, as a woman, when our emotions seem so out of control? Are we capable of being such a women?
~Thought for the day~
The separation of being apart from the one we love can be a friend or foe. Take the time of separation to examine our hearts and find the areas of improvement. Looking within and loving ourselves first is the self-care that will connect these two worlds and love will conquer all the insecurities, fears and barriers.
Love your husband right where he is mentally and emotionally. Respect him for the man you chose, love him. If he is frustrated and chooses to take it out on you, listen and respond by letting him know you can empathize with his frustration and remind him you are his biggest fan.